Here's a stat that says a lot: research has found couples often wait years from the first sign of trouble before they reach out for help. That's a long time to white-knuckle through the same argument on a loop, hoping it sorts itself out.

A big reason for that wait is the mystery of it. People picture couples therapy as a referee blowing a whistle while two people air grievances, or worse, a place you go right before you split. So let's pull back the curtain, because the reality is a lot warmer, more practical, and more hopeful than the myth.

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